It may be one of the worst feelings in the world for a lover that has come to the place where they no longer want to try at making a dysfunctional relationship work. How can you come to the decision to let go of another human being? How do you decide to give up on what you believed was love? Does leaving mean you are a quitter? Do you walk away as the victor or the loser? Does the other person become the victim or the villain? All these questions and more plagued my mind on a Sunday evening many years ago.